{"id":33831,"date":"2024-11-18T10:33:33","date_gmt":"2024-11-18T10:33:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=33831"},"modified":"2024-12-27T21:09:03","modified_gmt":"2024-12-27T21:09:03","slug":"a-husband-who-has-a-private-personality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/a-husband-who-has-a-private-personality\/","title":{"rendered":"A Husband Who Has A Private Personality"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><b>Fatwa ID: 07696<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><b style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%;\">Answered by: Maulana Ahmed Bodhania <\/b><span style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">It&#8217;s been almost a decade since our marriage, and my husband keeps his phone and WhatsApp locked from me, he says he has his bank accounts open and on WhatsApp he doesn&#8217;t want his family members like his parent&#8217;s or sibling&#8217;s conversations to be seen by me. He says If I wish to see he can view his phone in his presence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I get bypassed by his attitude because in our circle wives freely use their husband&#8217;s phones without hesitation. So is he wrong or should I not feel bad regarding it?<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><b style=\"text-align: center; text-size-adjust: 100%;\">In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><b>Answer:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Your husband might have a more private personality type and therefore would prefer to keep his phone locked. This doesn&#8217;t mean or is not a reason to suspect his loyalty to the marriage, especially if he has allowed you to randomly spot-check his phone in his presence if you find something suspicious at this time while randomly spot-checking his phone or any other time then there would be reason to doubt his loyalty to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Maulana Ahmed Bodhania<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><b>\u064a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0653\u0623\u064e\u064a\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0671\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0621\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064e\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0671\u062c\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0646\u0650\u0628\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0643\u064e\u062b\u0650\u064a\u0631\u064b\u06ed\u0627 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0671\u0644\u0638\u0651\u064e\u0646\u0651\u0650 \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0636\u064e \u0671\u0644\u0638\u0651\u064e\u0646\u0651\u0650 \u0625\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0645\u064c\u06ed<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u06d6\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">49.12\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 07696 &nbsp; &nbsp; Answered by: Maulana Ahmed Bodhania \u00a0 &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; It&#8217;s been almost a decade since our marriage, and my husband&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33831"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33831"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33831\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34678,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33831\/revisions\/34678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33831"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33831"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33831"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}