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Fatwa ID: 08227<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by Alimah Shireen Mangera-Badat<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Me and my husband have been having problems. He had become short-tempered and used to lose control\u2014this happened many times and in extreme anger wouldn\u2019t believe what I would say. This is something that started happening every few weeks over the smallest things. I told him a few times it\u2019s not normal\u2014even our children would say that it\u2019s like he has some mental issues\u2014because he would even stop speaking to the kids every time he was in that mood. But when he was normal, it was like a different person\u2014very caring and loving.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Recently we had a dispute and he stopped talking to me. During that time, I went through my menstruation. On the fifth day after ghusl, we sat and cleared our differences. He asked if I could read the Kalimah and promise to live with him with my heart. After that, twice we had the husband-wife relationship, and I was still in the need of ghusl. But over something very small and petty, he lost his temper and said talaq three times in one sitting. This happened a week ago. Even on that day, he was ok in the morning.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I\u2019m not sure if there\u2019s any chance of reconciling or not. Please can you guide me with this?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Divorce is one of the issues that one should not utter in anger or jest.<\/span><\/p>\n

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You have mentioned that you feel that your husband has mental health issues, but you have not mentioned that it is a diagnosed condition. Therefore, in your case, as it is not a diagnosed condition, your husband\u2019s words of divorce are quite clear. [1]<\/span><\/p>\n

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He spoke words of divorce and no other words after that. In clear words\u2014in Fiqh terminology this is classed as sareeh (clear words\/unambiguous)\u2014which would mean that his words are effective. All three divorces have taken place. [2] [3]<\/span><\/p>\n

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In your given situation, this would also mean that no reconciliation is possible unless halala was performed. This process must occur naturally and cannot be arranged deceitfully, as halalah completed with the intent of returning to the first husband is impermissible (haram).<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by: Alimah Shireen Mangera-Badat<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by: Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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