{"id":36552,"date":"2025-04-18T09:15:31","date_gmt":"2025-04-18T09:15:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=36552"},"modified":"2025-04-18T09:15:31","modified_gmt":"2025-04-18T09:15:31","slug":"no-one-is-willing-to-accompany-me-as-a-mahram-for-hajj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/no-one-is-willing-to-accompany-me-as-a-mahram-for-hajj\/","title":{"rendered":"No One Is Willing To Accompany Me as a Mahram For Hajj"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 07969<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by Alimah Shireen Mangera-Badat<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I am a female in my 20s. I would like to go for Hajj this year and \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0645\u062f\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u062d\u0645\u062f\u0627\u064b \u0643\u062b\u064a\u0631\u0627\u064b\u060c I have the means to do so.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I could also pay for one mahram to come with me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">My dad doesn\u2019t want to come this year, as he has a project that he is in the middle of.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I don\u2019t want to annoy him, but also I need to do my Hajj. I\u2019ve not yet completed the obligation. Is it okay for me to try persuading him to accompany me, even if he finds me mentioning Hajj annoying?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Answer<\/u><\/strong><u>: <\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">The Quran has clearly stated and has pointed out the necessity of performing the hajj if you are able.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u201cCommitment to\u02fa pilgrimage is made in appointed months.<sup>1<\/sup>\u00a0Whoever commits to \u02f9performing\u02fa pilgrimage, let them stay away from intimate relations, foul language, and arguments during pilgrimage. Whatever good you do, Allah \u02f9fully\u02fa knows of it. Take \u02f9necessary\u02fa provisions \u02f9for the journey\u02fa\u2014surely the best provision is righteousness. And be mindful of Me, O \u00a0people of reason! (Surah Baqarah:197).<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Hajj has become compulsory on you since you have the means.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Though<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> your father is not persuaded currently it would be wise that you try and convince him now to go with you to act as your mahram, as is recommended by the Hanafi Fiqh to undertake a journey with a mahram.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Therefore, try and convince him to undertake this journey with you as part your fulfilment of deen or if you have another mahram you can undertake the journey with him to complete the Hajj.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Alimah Shireen Mangera-Badat<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> \u0671\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u062c\u0651\u064f \u0623\u064e\u0634\u0652\u0647\u064f\u0631\u064c\u06ed \u0645\u0651\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0645\u064e\u0640\u0670\u062a\u064c\u06ed \u06da \u0641\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646 \u0641\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0636\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a\u0647\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0671\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u062c\u0651\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u0631\u064e\u0641\u064e\u062b\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u0641\u064f\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0642\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u062c\u0650\u062f\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0641\u0650\u0649 \u0671\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u062c\u0651\u0650 \u06d7 \u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064e\u0641\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u062e\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064d\u06e2 \u064a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0645\u0652\u0647\u064f \u0671\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u06d7 \u0648\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0632\u064e\u0648\u0651\u064e\u062f\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u062e\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064e \u0671\u0644\u0632\u0651\u064e\u0627\u062f\u0650 \u0671\u0644\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0642\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0649\u0670 \u06da \u0648\u064e\u0671\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0646\u0650 \u064a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0653\u0623\u064f\u0648\u06df\u0644\u0650\u0649 \u0671\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0628\u0650<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; 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font-size: 12pt;\">Riyad as-Salihin 990<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 07969 &nbsp; Answered by Alimah Shireen Mangera-Badat &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; I am a female in my 20s. 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