{"id":37562,"date":"2025-11-13T19:54:38","date_gmt":"2025-11-13T19:54:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=37562"},"modified":"2025-11-13T20:48:37","modified_gmt":"2025-11-13T20:48:37","slug":"disclosing-past-or-present-illnesses-to-a-potential-spouse-before-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/disclosing-past-or-present-illnesses-to-a-potential-spouse-before-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Disclosing Past Or Present Illnesses To A Potential Spouse Before Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 08512<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by Muftiyah Saniyah Bint Asrar<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">What kind of illnesses would one have to disclose when seeking a wife? If the illness is not current, does it have to be disclosed i.e. if one used to have ocd\/waswasa issues in the past and one has healed a great amount. Would one have to inform a potential spouse of it in case it creeps up again?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If one has an issue with one of his eyes that he got treated for (although the treatment was to stop the issue getting worse and not improve the sight) does one have to mention that too?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If one regularly wakes up to discharge, does one have to mention that too?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If one had issues related to frequently using the bathroom and related issues but that is no longer the case now, does it have to be mention now?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Honesty and transparency are essential in any marriage. While not every past or minor medical issue needs to be disclosed, any illness that could significantly impact a spouse or marital life should be discussed beforehand.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Any illness that affects daily life, marital responsibilities, or future health should be disclosed. This includes chronic illnesses, mental health conditions that may impact the relationship, or hereditary diseases.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If an illness is in the past but has the potential to return, such as OCD\/waswasa, it is advisable to mention it. While complete healing may have occurred, it is fair to inform a potential spouse in case of a possible recurrence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If the eye condition does not affect daily activities or marital responsibilities, it may not be necessary to disclose it. However, if it significantly impacts vision or quality of life, it is best to mention it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Regular nocturnal discharge is a natural bodily function and does not need to be disclosed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If the bathroom-related issues are completely resolved and do not affect daily life, they do not need to be mentioned.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>References:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/app.turath.io\/book\/1681?page=9110\">\u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d \u0627\u0644\u0628\u062e\u0627\u0631\u064a &#8211; \u0637 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0637\u0627\u0646\u064a\u0629 \u0668\/\u200f\u0662\u0665<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; 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font-size: 12pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/app.turath.io\/book\/1727?page=6574\">\u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d \u0645\u0633\u0644\u0645 &#8211; \u062a \u0639\u0628\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0628\u0627\u0642\u064a \u0664\/\u200f<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/app.turath.io\/book\/1727?page=6574\">\u0662\u0660\u0661\u0663<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0661\u0660\u0665 &#8211; (\u0662\u0666\u0660\u0667) \u062d\u064e\u062f\u0651\u064e\u062b\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u064f\u062d\u064e\u0645\u0651\u064e\u062f\u064f \u0628\u0652\u0646\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0628\u0652\u062f\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0628\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u0646\u064f\u0645\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064d. \u062d\u062f\u062b\u0646\u0627 \u0623\u0628\u0648 \u0645\u0639\u0627\u0648\u064a\u0629 \u0648\u0648\u0643\u064a\u0639. \u0642\u0627\u0644\u0627: \u062d\u062f\u062b\u0646\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0639\u0645\u0634. \u062d \u0648\u062d\u064e\u062f\u0651\u064e\u062b\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u064f\u0648 \u0643\u064f\u0631\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0628\u064d. \u062d\u064e\u062f\u0651\u064e\u062b\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u064f\u0648 \u0645\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0648\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0629\u064e. \u062d\u064e\u062f\u0651\u064e\u062b\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0634\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0634\u064e\u0642\u0650\u064a\u0642\u064d\u060c \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0628\u0652\u062f\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0642\u0627\u0644:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; 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font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah (\u0639\u0632 \u0648 \u062c\u0644) knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Muftiyah Saniyah Bint Asrar<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 08512 &nbsp; &nbsp; Answered by Muftiyah Saniyah Bint Asrar &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; What kind of illnesses would one have to disclose when seeking&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37562"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37562"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37562\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":39444,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37562\/revisions\/39444"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37562"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37562"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37562"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}