{"id":39155,"date":"2025-10-24T11:45:02","date_gmt":"2025-10-24T11:45:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=39155"},"modified":"2025-10-24T13:37:01","modified_gmt":"2025-10-24T13:37:01","slug":"giving-three-talaq-in-the-state-of-anger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/giving-three-talaq-in-the-state-of-anger\/","title":{"rendered":"Giving Three Talaq In The State Of Anger"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 08433<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong> Written by: Mufti Sibghat Ullah<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">On the 27th October me and my husband had an argument which got a bit physical. He went upstairs to call his sister, while he was on the phone talking to her I went up, he was telling her how I kick him out the room every time we argue and I was trying to put my point across that I only do it when he does something wrong. He got angry and said to his sister she kicks me out of the room I\u2019m going to take her out of my zindagi and I\u2019m going to give her thalak Quran Pak ki kasam I\u2019m going to give her thalak. So I interrupted and said you said it twice might as well say it three times, he turned to me and said in Punjabi<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u201cThalak e Thalak e Thalak e keh diya theen bar Thalak e And then he goes \u201chogai thalak\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Within half hour when everyone started to gather at my house and everyone said you gave her divorce. He wasn\u2019t believing it saying \u201cI didn\u2019t have the intention to give you thalak I was angry, I went to speak to my sister about our situation and you came up\u00a0If you didn\u2019t come up I would have never come to find you and give you thalak I didn\u2019t know just by saying it It happens. I thought I need 4 witnesses etc, qnd then he kind of just went into shock like what has just happened, we have 4 children between 1-8, it wasn\u2019t even a big argument so we are both really in shock to what\u2019s happened.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Anyway he asked a scholar in Pakistan a Mufti also Darul Ifta and they said it\u2019s not thalak as he said it in janoon anger and we got back together within the iddath period. This month I\u2019m having doubts if we are in a halal relationship or not? I also have a voice note of him saying thalak.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>In the name of Allah, the <\/strong><strong>Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Divorce is generally given in the state of anger, He has said the clear words of divorce three times.<a href=\"#_edn1\" name=\"_ednref1\">[i] <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">So, your divorce is done, and your marriage has ended.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>References:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><a href=\"#_ednref1\" name=\"_edn1\">[i]<\/a> Fatawa Hindiya, Book of divorce, Chapter 2 in occurring of divorce: &#8211;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0648\u0627\u0646 \u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0631\u0629 \u0623\u0646\u062a \u0637\u0627\u0644\u0642 \u0648\u0637\u0627\u0644\u0642 \u0648\u0637\u0627\u0644\u0642 \u0648\u0644\u0645 \u064a\u0639\u0644\u0642\u0647 \u0628\u0627\u0644\u0634\u0631\u0637 \u0625\u0646 \u0643\u0627\u0646\u062a \u0645\u062f\u062e\u0648\u0644\u0629 \u0637\u0644\u0642\u062a \u062b\u0644\u0627\u062b\u0627<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">And if he said to the woman: \u201cYou are divorced, divorced, divorced,\u201d and he did not attach the condition to him, if marriage was consummated, then she is divorced three times.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Mufti Sibghat Ullah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 08433 &nbsp; \u00a0 Written by: Mufti Sibghat Ullah \u00a0 Question: &nbsp; On the 27th October me and my husband had an argument which&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39155"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39155"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39155\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":39165,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39155\/revisions\/39165"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39155"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39155"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39155"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}