{"id":40489,"date":"2026-02-11T13:34:46","date_gmt":"2026-02-11T13:34:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=40489"},"modified":"2026-02-12T10:19:35","modified_gmt":"2026-02-12T10:19:35","slug":"ruling-on-uttering-the-words-i-divorced-her-three-times-while-claiming-it-was-a-lie-without-intention-of-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/ruling-on-uttering-the-words-i-divorced-her-three-times-while-claiming-it-was-a-lie-without-intention-of-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Ruling On Uttering The Words \u201cI Divorced Her\u201d Three Times While Claiming It Was A Lie & Without Intention Of Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 08763<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Written by Maulana Mohammed Aabu Saeed Miah<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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I lied to mother that I gave divorce to my wife. My actual words were as these: I divorced her, I divorced, I divorced her. \u00a0I said these words \u201cI divorced her\u201d, \u201cI divorced her\u201d, \u201cI divorced her\u201d when my wife was also sitting in front of me. We (My Wife and I) had a rift and we were fighting and I stopped the fight by addressing these words \u201cI divorced her\u201d \u201cI divorced her\u201d \u201cI divorced her\u201d \u00a0to my mother (what I addressed to my mother was a lie, I never have or had an intention to divorce my wife). <\/span><\/p>\n

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Just in order to make my wife stop yelling at me, I pronounced these words \u201cI divorced her\u201d \u201cI divorced her\u201d \u201cI divorced her\u201d (but as said It was a lie and it was addressed to my mother and not to my wife). Does this mean that the divorce has occurred?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Dear brother, regarding divorce the Sharia has very clear guidelines. Explicit expression of divorce will make the divorce occur irrespective of one\u2019s intentions.<\/span><\/p>\n

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As your expression of divorce is explicit, your Nikkah is ended from that moment onwards. An irrevocable divorce will have occurred. This means she will be out of your Nikkah, and she will not be able to return until she has married someone else, consummated that marriage, and dissolved that marriage The lady\u2019s iddah (waiting period until she can re-marry someone else) will start from after your first expression of \u201cI divorced her\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Written by Maulana Mohammed Aabu Saeed Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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