{"id":40585,"date":"2026-02-24T12:21:40","date_gmt":"2026-02-24T12:21:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=40585"},"modified":"2026-02-24T13:45:40","modified_gmt":"2026-02-24T13:45:40","slug":"ruling-on-saying-you-are-free-or-marry-someone-else-during-a-marital-dispute","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/ruling-on-saying-you-are-free-or-marry-someone-else-during-a-marital-dispute\/","title":{"rendered":"Ruling On Saying \u201cYou Are Free\u201d Or \u201cMarry Someone Else\u201d During A Marital Dispute"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 08781<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Maulana Sakib Shadman<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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During arguments, my husband said things\u00a0 ‘You are free’ \u2014 only to end my extreme anger and on my repeated emotional demands. I was asking that I want to live freely as he is living like, I can go somewhere, do job, meet someone or what ever I want. He said ‘ok you are free, do whatever you want’. He later clarified that he never intended divorce and didn\u2019t even know that such words could be considered as talaq. We continued living together as normal. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Recently, in frustration, I (the wife) also said, ‘If you won\u2019t give me my rights, should I just marry someone else? it was just a random question and he said ‘Fine, go ahead and get married’ In light of all this, does any of it count as a valid divorce in Islam?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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If your husband said either of the statements \u201cyou are free\u201d or \u201cfine, go ahead and get married\u201d with the intention of divorce, then one Talaq Bain (irrevocable divorce) will take place. In order to reconcile your marriage, you will have to renew your Nikah (unless he has given you three Talaqs in total).<\/span><\/p>\n

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He does not need to have knowledge of whether either of the two statements constitute Talaq. Either way, if he intends divorce when saying such allusive statements (Kinaayaat) of Talaq, irrevocable divorce will take place.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Both you and your husband need to control your anger, and not say anything that will may cause your marriage to break during your heated arguments. As a wife, you should not provoke your husband to give you divorce by indirectly asking for it. When you make such requests, it puts the idea of Talaq in his mind and on his tongue. Again, please control your temper so that it does not lead to your marriage ending inadvertently.<\/span><\/p>\n

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