{"id":40645,"date":"2026-02-27T14:24:07","date_gmt":"2026-02-27T14:24:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=40645"},"modified":"2026-03-02T13:50:21","modified_gmt":"2026-03-02T13:50:21","slug":"ruling-on-husband-saying-i-want-to-divorce-you-you-are-free-from-my-side-does-divorce-take-place","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/ruling-on-husband-saying-i-want-to-divorce-you-you-are-free-from-my-side-does-divorce-take-place\/","title":{"rendered":"Ruling On Husband Saying \u201cI Want to Divorce You\u201d &#038; \u201cYou Are Free From My Side\u201d \u2014 Does Divorce Take Place?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 08796<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Answered by: Maulana Abdurrahman Mohammad<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">My husband said he wants to divorce me and that I am free from his side. Does that mean he\u2019s divorced me? Is it still okay for me to live with him?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Implicit Words (Kin\u0101yah)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Kin\u0101yah refers to indirect or ambiguous phrases that could imply divorce but may also have other meanings. These words do not result in an automatic divorce and require intention or a Talaq context for divorce to occur. Raddul Muht\u0101r states:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">According to the jurists (is whatever that was not stipulated for it) i.e. divorce (and has the possibility of it [divorce]) and other than it.<sup>[1]<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Fatawa Hindiyyah explains:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Divorce does not occur with them except with intention or by the indication of a situation.<sup>[2]<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Free From My Side<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">The phrase \u201cfree from my side\u201d is a Kin\u0101yah phrase, as it could be used to imply divorce or mean something else. If your husband intended to divorce you through these words, one Tal\u0101q B\u0101in would occur. If he intended something else, Tal\u0101q would not occur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Reconciliation and Remarriage<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">If this is the third Tal\u0101q, you would need to marry and consummate with someone else before the possibility of reconciliation. If it is the first or second Tal\u0101q, both of you would need to go through a Tajd\u012bd An-Nik\u0101h (renewal of the marriage) after the \u2018Iddat with a new Mahr if you want to remarry.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>References:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">[1] (\u0643\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0627\u064a\u064e\u062a\u064f\u0647\u064f) \u0639\u0650\u0646\u0652\u062f\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0641\u064f\u0642\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627\u0621\u0650 (\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0644\u064e\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064f\u0648\u0636\u064e\u0639\u0652 \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f) \u0623\u064e\u064a\u0652 \u0627\u0644\u0637\u064e\u0651\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0642\u0650 (\u0648\u064e\u0627\u062d\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f) \u0648\u064e\u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0647\u064f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">(Radd Al-Muht\u0101r, vol. 3, pg. 296, Darul Fikr Beirut)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">[2] \u0644\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0639\u064f \u0628\u0650\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0637\u064e\u0651\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0642\u064f \u0625\u0644\u064e\u0651\u0627 \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0650\u0651\u064a\u064e\u0651\u0629\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u0628\u0650\u062f\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e\u0629\u0650 \u062d\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">(Al-Fat\u0101w\u0101 Al-Hindiyya, vol. 1, pg. 374, Al-Ma\u1e6dba\u2019ah Al-Kubr\u0101 Al-Am\u012briyyah)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Only Allah (\u0639\u064e\u0632\u0651\u064e \u0648\u064e \u062c\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e) knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Written by Maulana Abdurrahman Mohammad<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 08796 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; Answered by: Maulana Abdurrahman Mohammad &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; My husband said he wants to divorce me and that I&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40645"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40645"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40645\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":40669,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40645\/revisions\/40669"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40645"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40645"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40645"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}