{"id":4465,"date":"2012-09-13T17:48:21","date_gmt":"2012-09-13T17:48:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=4465"},"modified":"2012-09-13T17:48:21","modified_gmt":"2012-09-13T17:48:21","slug":"parents-not-going-for-hajj-because-they-are-worried-about-their-daughters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/parents-not-going-for-hajj-because-they-are-worried-about-their-daughters\/","title":{"rendered":"Parents not going for Hajj because they are worried about their daughters"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n\tA sister asks:\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&quot;I&#39;d like to know if not performing Hajj (while having the opportunity) on the ground of not trusting to leave one&#39;s daughters at home alone is lawful and valid. Or if performing such a pillar of Islam has the priority over one&#39;s daughter and having trust\/distrust in them.\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tIn my case, me and my sister are 22-25 years old and we don&#39;t have anyone who could &quot;care&quot; for us, but on the other side we are old enough to stay alone..\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tEvery year I ask my parents if they&#39;re going to perform Hajj but they reply: &quot;we don&#39;t trust you in leaving you home alone&quot;; I remind them that not performing Hajj while having the means to do so is a great sin and they shouldn&#39;t let their love\/worry for us overcome the obligation of Hajj, but they justify themselves saying they have a valid reason, but I don&#39;t think that &quot;loving one&#39;s daughters too much and not trusting them&quot; is a valid reason!&nbsp; Is that correct?&quot;.\n<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">\n\t<strong>In the name of Allah, the most Beneficent, the most Merciful.<\/strong>\n<\/p>\n<h1>\n\tAnswer<br \/>\n<\/h1>\n<p>\n\tIn a nutshell, the aforementioned scenario is not a valid excuse not to go for Hajj. If the parents failed to go and passed away without performing the Hajj, they would be considered sinful.\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tIt is narrated by Saaiduna Ali Radiallahu Anhu that the Prophet of Allah Sallallahu Alahi Wasalam once said: &quot;He who possesses sufficient provisions and means of journey for the performance of Hajj and yet does not do so, let him die the death of a Jew or a Christian.&quot; (Sunan Tirmizi)\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tIf the parents do have a genuine concern for their daughter&rsquo;s well-being, they can book a ticket to go for Hajj for a couple of weeks. It is unlikely that within two weeks one&rsquo;s daughters will seriously go off their deen and start doing immoral things.\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tOnly Allah Knows Best\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tMohammed Tosir Miah\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A sister asks: &quot;I&#39;d like to know if not performing Hajj (while having the opportunity) on the ground of not trusting to leave one&#39;s daughters&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4465"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4465"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4465\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}