{"id":7437,"date":"2014-02-08T15:34:37","date_gmt":"2014-02-08T15:34:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=7437"},"modified":"2014-02-08T15:34:37","modified_gmt":"2014-02-08T15:34:37","slug":"if-the-husband-said-what-if-you-are-haram-on-me-to-his-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/if-the-husband-said-what-if-you-are-haram-on-me-to-his-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"If the husband said what if you are haram on me to his wife"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 01561<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by <\/strong>Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t(Extracted from a detailed question)<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIf the husband said “what if you are h-a-r-a-m on me and then after that I think said are you h-a-r-a-m on me twice that I think I said are you h-a-r-a-m on me twice and I said this for no apparent reason but after that I feel that I may have said to her you are h-a-r-a-m on me.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t\"Bismillah\"<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the name of Allah, the most Beneficent, the most Merciful.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tRegarding your first question, when you said “what if you are haraam on me” or “are you haraam on me” would not constitute a divorce. The aforementioned statement is more like a thought or possibility of your wife being unlawful upon you rather than actually intending to give her a divorce.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tRegarding your second question where you think you said “you are haraam on me”, there is a principle in Islamic jurisprudence which is:<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t“Certainty is not lifted by a doubt.” (Al Ashbah Wan Nadhair p.60)<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tTherefore if one was doubtful and uncertain of issuing a divorce then such a doubt will not invalidate one’s marriage, as the certainty of marriage will not be lifted by the doubt of issuing a divorce.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tThe conclusion to your question is that if you have a doubt whether you said “you are haraam on me” or not, then the divorce will not occur.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tOnly Allah Knows Best<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tMohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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