{"id":7860,"date":"2014-10-04T14:20:23","date_gmt":"2014-10-04T14:20:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=7860"},"modified":"2014-10-04T14:20:23","modified_gmt":"2014-10-04T14:20:23","slug":"what-should-a-wife-do-if-the-husband-is-abusive-to-her","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/what-should-a-wife-do-if-the-husband-is-abusive-to-her\/","title":{"rendered":"What should a wife do if the husband is abusive to her"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 01705<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by <\/strong>Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tMy husband always speaks bad against my parents to other people and always shouts at me in front of any body, he also asks his parents(mother, sister, brother, father) to push me and ill treats me whenever they see me. My in laws do not love me and her mother tries to do any thing to separate us. What shall I do? No body can talk to my husband as he never listens to anybody and he is very stupid and stubborn.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\r\n Answer:<\/strong><\/pre>\n
\n\t\"Bismillah\"<\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
\n\tTry to advise and explain to your husband in a nice and sweet way that what he is doing is having an effect on you and putting a strain in the marriage. If you can’t deal with the issue yourself, then you should resort to the mediation of either one of your or his family members.  <\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
\n\tIf these two avenues fail, then you can also ask for annulment of your marriage. You could take your case to an Islamic Sharia Council who can annul your marriage.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
\n\tAn Islamic Shari Committee can annul a marriage if they have at least three just persons sitting therein.  They should all be knowledgeable and well versed in Shariah laws on marriage and divorce.  An annulment issued by such a committee is valid in the Shariah.   (The Complete System of Talaq p.211)<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
\n\tAn annulment of marriage can be effected in any of the following situations:<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
    \n
  1. \n\t\tThe husband is missing completely<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  2. \n\t\tThe husband is absent with no known whereabouts<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  3. \n\t\tThe husband is incapable of maintaining his wife<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  4. \n\t\tThe husband is unwilling to maintain his wife<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  5. \n\t\tThe husband oppresses the wife such that he does not fulfil her rights<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  6. \n\t\tThe husband is castrated<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  7. \n\t\tThe husband is impotent<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  8. \n\t\tThe husband is insane<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  9. \n\t\tThe husband is afflicted with leprosy or any other illness which makes living with him difficult<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  10. \n\t\tThe choice of an immature when he\/she attains maturity<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  11. \n\t\tHusband or wife become apostate<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  12. \n\t\tFoster relationship which only becomes known after Nikah  <\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
    \n\t(The complete System of Divorce p.213)<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
    \n\tContact:<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
    \n\tMaulana Yaqub Qasmi
    \n\tDewsbury, UK
    \n\tHome\/Office: +44 (1924) 464523<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
    \n\tOnly Allah Knows Best<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
    \n\tMohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n
    \n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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