{"id":9412,"date":"2017-10-18T16:53:57","date_gmt":"2017-10-18T16:53:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=9412"},"modified":"2017-10-25T17:20:18","modified_gmt":"2017-10-25T17:20:18","slug":"how-to-avoid-getting-divorced","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/how-to-avoid-getting-divorced\/","title":{"rendered":"How to avoid getting divorced"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 02277<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by <\/strong>Maulana Mujahid Hussain<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAssalamu Alaikum.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tMy husband wants to give me divorce because of his family. Actually his family was against our marriage from the beginning but I don't want divorce please suggest me what to do.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tBismillah<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAsalamualykum<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tI’m sorry to hear your predicament. May Allah \"sub\u1e25\u0101nahu make it easy.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tYour question is vague hence it is difficult for me to give any specific advice.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIs it the whole family? If not then, who is the family member in question? and importantly why?<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIf the reason for the family wanting a divorce is something unparticular, then firstly identify what it is. If it’s <\/a>something you can change, such as a particular trait , then try to change it. If it’s  a particular incident in the past then try to make up for it by appropriate means. If it's something you can’t change such as belonging from a particular caste, then it’s a good idea to behave and treat the family in a such manner that they overlook  what they consider bad for the sake of the good they see and experience from you.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tI would highly suggest you go out of your way to spend time with the family , socializing with them as well as being good as possible in your treatment with them. Experience shows people's views of a individual change positively once they spend time with the person in question.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the meantime tell you husband to not haste and give you some time to prove yourself.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAllah Knows best.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tWritten by Maulana Mujahid Hussain<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and approved by Mufti Tosir Miah <\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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