{"id":9446,"date":"2017-10-25T17:45:21","date_gmt":"2017-10-25T17:45:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=9446"},"modified":"2017-10-25T17:45:52","modified_gmt":"2017-10-25T17:45:52","slug":"if-my-step-father-touched-me-and-kissed-me-with-lust-and","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/if-my-step-father-touched-me-and-kissed-me-with-lust-and\/","title":{"rendered":"If my step father touched me and kissed me with lust and"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 02290<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Answered by&nbsp;<\/strong>Mufti Eunus Ali<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Salam<br \/>\n\tI want to ask if my step father touched me and kissed me with lust and desire my mother and step father nikah invalid or valid?<br \/>\n\tMy step father has changed so much now he has beard and pray 5 time a day.I dont want to separate my mother and step father because he is changed so much he has beard and pray 5 time.If theres any solution please tell me<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Bismillah<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">When a man and woman come into physical contact (amongst other actions) which is combined with lust from either side the ruling of <em>al-Hurmat al-Musaharah<\/em>will take effect.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">This means that the mother (and lineage going above) of that woman and her daughter\/s (and lineage going down) will become eternally haram for that man and marriage between them will be impermissible.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Likewise the father (and lineage going above) of that man and his son\/s (and lineage going down) will become eternally haram for that woman and marriage between them will be impermissible.As a result any existing relation between the above will also be terminated.<\/span><a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\" title=\"\"><span style=\"color:#000000;\">[1]<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">In regards to your question as the kissing and touching was combined with lust and desire the ruling of <em>al-Hurmat al-Musaharah <\/em>has taken effect and the marriage between your mother and step father has therefore been terminated.To avoid them living in sin they should be informed about this.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">For a detailed explanation of the rules of <em>al-Hurmat al-Musaharah<\/em> please refer to the link below:<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/does-the-father-in-law-have-to-marry-the-daughter-in-law-after-hurmat-musaaharah\/\">http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/does-the-father-in-law-have-to-marry-the-daughter-in-law-after-hurmat-musaaharah\/<\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Written by Mufti Eunus Ali<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr align=\"left\" size=\"1\" width=\"33%\" \/>\n<div id=\"ftn1\">\n<p>\n\t\t\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\" title=\"\"><span style=\"color:#000000;\">[1]<\/span><\/a><span style=\"color:#000000;\"> Al Fatawa Al Hindiyyah, Volume 1, Page 302, Darul Kutubul Ilmiyyah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t&nbsp;\n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 02290 Answered by&nbsp;Mufti Eunus Ali Question: Salam I want to ask if my step father touched me and kissed me with lust 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