{"id":9924,"date":"2018-02-26T18:19:40","date_gmt":"2018-02-26T18:19:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=9924"},"modified":"2018-02-26T18:19:40","modified_gmt":"2018-02-26T18:19:40","slug":"couple-arguing-about-talaq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/couple-arguing-about-talaq\/","title":{"rendered":"Couple arguing about talaq"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 02418<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by:<\/strong> Moulana Muhammad Imad Ali<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tMy husband and I had an argument and I asked for talaq out of anger as a response of me provoking him he said ( you are talaq). Then the next day before he revoked it, we were discussing the issue and he said ( I have already given you the talaq) and we were back together after that. A day later we were talking and he said I did (let you go) 2 days after we were talking about some investment and I said I want to do it and he replied to me saying  (just listen to yourself and say why I get mad take your talaq then and go if you want to do things alone)<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tcan you please guide me ASAP ? How many talaqs did he give me?<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t\u0628\u0633\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u064a\u0645<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tFirstly, when the husband has clearly issued a Talaq regardless of it being issued verbally or in a written form, the wife will start her waiting period immediately. During this waiting period if the couple decide to reconcile their marriage, they will be permitted<\/strong> to do so without<\/strong> performing a new marriage.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tSecondly, when certain unclear phrases (cannot determine if it is a general statement or talaq is intended) such as “you are not wife material,” “I have had enough of you” or “I don’t need a wife like you” are used, which are accompanied with the intention of talaq, a divorce absolute (talaq bain) will take place. This means that the wife will begin her waiting period immediately and it will not be permissible <\/strong>for the couple to reconcile their marriage without repeating the nikah, in which consent from both parties are required etc.  (Al-Lubab Fi Sharh Al-Kitab, Page 444, Al-Maktabatul Umariyyah)<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAccording to the above mentioned scenario your husband has issued you with one Talaq because his later statements are referring back to his initial Talaq.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tOnly Allah knows best.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tWritten by Moulana Muhammad Imad Ali<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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