Fatwa ID: 06986
Answered by: Alimah Sherbhanu Jadwat
Question:
In Islam one has to submit his will to the Almighty God. So, is having a session with a dominatrix considered as committing shirk as one has to submit his will to the dominatrix?
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Answer:
Shirk means to assign partners to Allah in worship; dua; His Quality of being Creator and Sustainer of the entire cosmos ; His Ahkaam / Laws and in Allah Alone being the King and Ruler of all the worlds.
Submitting oneself temporarily to another human in a halaal way , does not constitute shirk. This is usually the case when one submits to a teacher or spiritual guide. One understands that the other has greater knowledge, expertise and experience, thus one submits oneself to the ustad / sheikh to attain the maximum ilmi and ruhaani benefits.
Submitting oneself temporarily to another human in a haraam way , is a great danger to one’s Imaan. It is pure shaitaaniyah and a major sin bordering upon kufr.
Whilst submitting to a domanatrix when one knows what one is doing is wrong , is not shirk ; there is a great probability that it will culminate in shirk.
If one utters or does anything that constitutes any type of shirk , eg, uttering ‘I am your slave ; your wish is my command ‘ in response to haraam commands , or bows or makes sajdah to another , then one loses one’s Imaan.
References:
انواع الشرك المنصوصة
الشرك في الابادة ؛ الشرك في الدعاء ؛ الشرك في الربوبية ؛ الشرك في الحكم ؛ الشرك في الملك والسلط
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شرح العقيدة الطحاوية
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Only Allah (عز و جل) knows best.
Written by Alimah Sherbhanu Jadwat
Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah
Darul Ifta Birmingham